Teach men not to rape? Teach women not to make false rape claims and ruin peoples lives. And not to lie. Or overreact. Or destroy other peoples property. Or encourage and praise other women who do it.
HOW ABOUT NO. HOW ABOUT YOU QUIT LOOKING FOR EXCUSES TO ALWAYS BLAME THE WOMAN AND TAKE FAULT FROM THE MAN. HOW ABOUT WE TEACH OUR SONS TO RESPECT WOMEN, AND HOW ABOUT WE QUIT USING CASES LIKE THIS TO VALIDATE MEN RAPING WOMEN AND GETTING AWAY WITH IT. HOW ABOUT THE NUMBER OF CASES IN WHICH A WOMAN’S BODY WAS ACTUALLY VIOLATED SO INCREDIBLY OUTWEIGH CASES OF FALSELY REPORTED RAPE THAT IT’S NOT EVEN FUNNY. HOW ABOUT YOU JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP BECAUSE YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE WHAT YOU’RE EVEN TALKING ABOUT, YOU MISOGYNISTIC RAPE-CULTURE PROMOTING ASSHOLE.
False rape accusations hurt actual rape victims you thickheaded egghead.
ARE YOU GOING TO DISREGARD HOW SHE DESTROYED HIS PRIVATE PROPERTY AND CHEATED ON HIM THE MONTH BEFORE?
"HOW ABOUT NO. HOW ABOUT YOU QUIT LOOKING FOR EXCUSES TO ALWAYS BLAME THE WOMAN AND TAKE FAULT FROM THE MAN. HOW ABOUT WE TEACH OUR SONS TO RESPECT WOMEN, AND HOW ABOUT WE QUIT USING CASES LIKE THIS TO VALIDATE MEN RAPING WOMEN AND GETTING AWAY WITH IT. HOW ABOUT THE NUMBER OF CASES IN WHICH A WOMAN’S BODY WAS ACTUALLY VIOLATED SO INCREDIBLY OUTWEIGH CASES OF FALSELY REPORTED RAPE THAT IT’S NOT EVEN FUNNY. HOW ABOUT YOU JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP BECAUSE YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE WHAT YOU’RE EVEN TALKING ABOUT, YOU MISOGYNISTIC RAPE-CULTURE PROMOTING ASSHOLE. "
How about you stop living in fairyland where all women are flawless princesses and men are all big bad evil rapers? False rape cases don’t invalidate actual rape cases, false rape accusers invalidate actual rape cases. Sit the fuck down, because
In 1989, Gary Dotson became the United States’ first innocent prisoner to be exonerated through DNA evidence. Dotson had already served 10 years of a 25-50 year sentence for aggravated kidnapping and rape. Although his accuser recanted her story in 1985 and said she made it up to cover a sexual encounter with her boyfriend, a judge refused to order a new trial, saying that the complainant’s original testimony was more convincing than her recantation. In 1988, Dotson’s defense attorney conducted previously unavailable DNA tests, which ultimately proved his innocence. An innocent man served 10 years for a crime he didn’t commit, and which even his accuser admitted never even happened. One study shows that between 1989 and 2003, 328 men and women convicted of rape were exonerated; over half of those had already served 10 or more years of their sentence, despite their innocence.
False rape accusations are serious, potentially destroying the lives of the accused. While some organizations show that only 2% of rape claims are unfounded, other research shows false rape claims to be as high as 43%. The FBI’s 1996 Uniform Crime Report states that 8% of forcible rape claims are unfounded, compared with the 2% average for all other crimes. The FBI statistic only accounts for forcible rape charges determined to be false through investigation. It does not take into consideration the number of other false sexual assault claims or the number of accusations recanted or dismissed at trial.
Locally, the OSBI reported 1,453 rape offenses in Oklahoma in 2008. If the FBI statistic that 8% of rape claims are unfounded holds true, that means there are potentially 116 Oklahomans wrongfully accused and convicted of rape each year.
Some victims’ advocates claim that women don’t lie about rape; however, recent high-profile cases have proven that to be untrue. Kobe Bryant, Ben Roethlisberger, and the Duke Lacrosse team represent only a few of the incidents of false allegations of rape that have received national media attention.
Some reasons accusers lie about being rape include:
- spite or revenge
- an alibi for their own sexual encounters
- a ploy for sympathy or attention
- regret over sexual indiscretions
'Bullied to death' for daring to stand up to drug dealers: Schoolboy, 16, died after he was falsely accused of raping a girl by yobs who terrorised his neighbourhood(http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2517975/Schoolboy-16-killed-falsely-accused-tying-girl-tree-raping-her.html)
Nurse jailed for 22 months after falsely accusing her grandfather of raping her as a child in order to claim inheritance cash (http://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/crime/nurse-jailed-22-months-after-2995382)
Mich. woman gets prison for false rape report(http://www.boston.com/news/nation/2014/01/17/mich-woman-false-rape-case-get-sentence/iGYv9vzjki3Z4bH85TYgPM/story.html) Brian Banks, Jailed On False Rape Charge, Sees Dream Come True As Atlanta Falcons Sign Him(http://www.laweekly.com/informer/2013/04/03/brian-banks-jailed-on-false-rape-charge-sees-dream-come-true-as-atlanta-falcons-sign-him) GREELEY — A former University of Northern Colorado student who was banned from campus because of a false accusation of rape is now suing his accuser.(http://www.denverpost.com/news/ci_11973765)
Don’t falsely accuse someone of rape, get compensated for it, recant your statement and then expect a school district not to come for the money they gave you. Wanetta Gibson, the woman who accused Brian Banks of rape, is learning this the hard way.(http://www.clutchmagonline.com/2013/04/wanetta-gibson-lawsuit-school-sues-woman-over-false-rape-accusation/)
Virginia Woman Falsely Accuses Man Of Rape And Sends Him Away For Four Years Before Recanting … Given Just 60 Days In Jail To Be Served On Weekends(http://jonathanturley.org/2013/08/20/virginia-woman-falsely-accuses-man-of-rape-and-sends-him-away-for-four-years-before-recanting-given-just-60-days-in-jail-to-be-served-on-weekends/)
Hawkins’ arrest came after Jennifer Valenta, 28, of Wilber told authorities she was raped by four men, including Hawkins. Investigators later determined her injuries from the alleged attack were self-inflicted, and she admitted to fabricating the rape. She pleaded no contest to evidence tampering, false reporting and attempted prostitution and was sentenced earlier this year to 32 to 60 months in prison.(http://journalstar.com/news/local/911/court-dismisses-nebraska-man-s-false-rape-lawsuit/article_ff0a3fe8-6fbe-528e-b877-89ea123bf4b0.html)
A Canfield couple has sued the city of Canfield and some of its police officers and brass and an assistant Mahoning County prosecutor for at least $5 million in federal court, saying their 11-year daughter was maliciously prosecuted and falsely imprisoned on rape charges, of which she was later acquitted.(http://www.vindy.com/news/2013/apr/24/federal-lawsuit-states-canfield-girl—fa/)
A Wymore man wrongfully accused of sexual assault is asking for a jury trial to assess damages done by Gage County and several sheriff’s deputies.(http://www.cotwa.info/2013/01/wymore-man-sues-after-false-rape.html)
Copperfield, 53, heralded Carroll’s arrest as proof that the woman was a liar and a gold-digger, interested only in extorting money from Copperfield and cashing in on her allegations. In a statement prepared after consulting with their client, Copperfield attorneys Patty Eakes and Angelo Calfo on Tuesday said Carroll “admitted to lying to police about the rape because she had to. Her lies were caught on tape, so she plea-bargained her way out of a jail sentence. “Her guilty plea shows that her claim that she was blacked out was nothing more than another Lacey Carroll hoax,” they said. “Now she’s a convicted liar; she’s a disgrace to women who have been truly victimized.” (http://www.davidcopperfieldsetstherecordstraight.com/)
Man Awarded $852,000 in Civil Court After Ex-Wife Falsely Accuses Him of Sexual Abuse(http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/08/16/man-awarded-852000-in-civil-court-after-ex-wife-falsely-accuses-him-of-sexual-abuse/)
The family of a 16-year-old girl who accused a Highland Park High School senior of raping her responded Monday to his family’s defamation lawsuit, saying it was “replete with nasty allegations designed to embarrass and cause distress.”(http://www.dallasnews.com/news/community-news/park-cities/headlines/20130429-girls-family-countersues-after-facing-defamation-suit-for-rape-allegations.ece)
The blogosphere is abuzz with controversy over a Beaverton, Oregon’s judge’s sentencing of a 19-year-old woman for filing false rape charges.(http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/oregon_teen_sentenced_for_false_rape_charge/)
A University’s Shame: How Brown betrayed one of its students(http://brown-spectator.com/2012/05/a-universitys-shame-how-brown-betrayed-one-of-its-students/) Park Si Hoo Is Cleared Of All Charges Stemming From Anti-Defamation Lawsuit Filed By The CEO Of His Former Talent Agency(http://www.kpopstarz.com/articles/35307/20130722/park-si-hoo-lawsuit.htm) False accusation will cost woman $55,000(http://www.vcstar.com/news/2010/jan/02/55000-ordered-paid-for-false-accusation/) Husband falsely accused of child rape wins $1.2 million from ex-spouse(http://mkg4583.wordpress.com/2009/08/23/husband-falsely-accused-of-child-rape-wins-1-2-million-from-ex-spouse/)
Mohammad Asif: “I keep thinking, ‘I just dropped her off, she was just a normal passenger, why has she done that?” -accused by said passenger of raping her at knifepoint - would be in jail except was exonerated by voice recording app on hsi phone.
Soner Yasa: four drunk women reported to police that he had sexually assaulted them as a ploy to refuse to pay a $13 cab fare- Once again he’d be in jail if not for video surveillance in his cab. Over $13
all hail Jafar. *bows*
-the italian one
Hitler was right about 1 thing. Aryans are different than all other races. Whites are different than all other races. The white race evolved differently from all PoC races.
Whites came from the European continent,
PoC from Asia and Africa.
Where PoC races have thrived and created, the white…
Its almost like this has been said before. Just change the racial terms and there was a man 80 years ago saying the exact same things.
You fucking white people just love comparing PoC to Hitler. Hitler is your legacy you racist little fuck.
Oh, is Hitler not to your liking? Maybe a PoC genocidal lunatic will be better tailored to your idiotic taste.
Bernard Munyagishari: Black Hutu that played a major role in the Rwandan genocide.
Georges Rutaganda: Rwandan hutu militia leader that helped carry out the rwandan genocide.
Augustin Bizimungu: Rwandan general that trained soldier to carrie out the genocide.
Colonel Théoneste Bagosora: Played a key role in the rwandan genocide.
How about Pol Pot, who led the Khmer Rouge in committing the Cambodian Genocide? Killing 25 percent of the Cambodian population.
Oh, remember that time when those cute little Middle Eastern Turks committed the Armenian genocide? Killing 1.5 million Armenians.
Oh, while we’re at it, lets bring up the Japanese war crimes during the Second World War.
The Japanese PoC that committed crimes of such brutality that it shocked the Nazis.
The Japanese killed over 10 million Chinese, Filipino, Korean and Indochinese civilians.
Maybe one of those groups of PoC racist is more to your liking, would you like me to name more?
Interesting how all these PoC were accused, tried and convicted in white courts by white people. All the “evidence”, gathered by whites. And most of all, it was whites that carried out the sentences. But I bet you cant see that past your privilege, can you?
25% of the judges that sat at the Tribunals of the Far East war PoC
30% of the Prosecutors of the Tribunals of the Far East were PoC
All PoC from countries that Japan attacked and oppressed during the war.
14 of the 16 Judges that are sitting on the International Criminal Tribunal for Rwanda are PoC
18 of the 23 judges of the Cambodia tribunal are PoC.
You wanna try again sweety?
i really dont like to get THIS petty but im going to anyway, because free speech is a thing that exists in america
Anthropology, University of Colorado, Boulder
The role of body fat deposition in female fertility from an evolutionary perspective.
I hope somewhere Sir Mix-A-Lot is out there and has seen this and smiles upon it.
So true of every damn field out there. Good luck, ya’ brave bastard.
is he talking about that little cut?
i was going to go to bed but it’s time to smack down so im gonna inform you all of a thing or two about the comparison between male and female victims of domestic violence that might shock you.
Similarities and differences between male and female victims
In the South Australian study, the similarities between male and female victims of domestic violence included.
- the reasons they remained in a relationship where there was violence and abuse
- the triggers for violence and abuse;
- feelings of shame and embarrassment associated with the disclosure of violence.
The ways in which male victims’ experiences of domestic violence differed from females’ were:
- males reported that they were not living in an ongoing state of fear of the perpetrator;
- males did not have prior experiences of violent relationships, and
- males rarely experienced post-separation violence and, in the one reported case, it was far less severe than in male-to-female violence.
Female victims of domestic violence in the South Australian study confirmed the prevalence of physical, psychological, emotional, social and financial abuse (often in combination) as well as other intimidating or controlling forms of abuse, such as stalking, sleep deprivation or driving a car too fast (*The South Australian phone-in interviewed 120 callers, most of whom were female victims of violence. The female respondents reported all forms of abuse and often the various forms of abuse overlapped in one abusive event.) They also described patterns of extreme cruelty that often developed in long-term, violent relationships with ‘strategies’ of abuse becoming more diverse over time.
95% of those interviewed reported that they had experienced abuse over a period of years. In many relationships, acts of cruelty were carried out on the women, the children in the family (as primary and secondary victims) and on family pets. Humiliation, cruelty, jealousy, isolation from friends and family and the infliction of emotional, sexual or physical pain were common experiences. Victims frequently spoke of the abusers’ need to control all aspects of their life, both in and away from the house.
The link between the length of the relationship and the experience of cruelty was particularly notable, especially as the common theme in the women’s accounts was their daily experience of living in fear. The findings indicated that the vast majority of female victims were frightened of their partner, compared to none of the male victims.
Although there is some evidence that both men and women engage in abusive behaviour in heterosexual relationships, the nature and consequence of women’s violence is not equivalent to men’s in the following ways.
- Men’s violence is more severe:
- Women are more likely to be killed by current and former male partners than by anyone else;
- most male homicides are committed by males in public places as a result of alcohol-related arguments;
- the main reasons men kill their female partners are desertion, the ending of a relationship, and jealousy. However studies of wives who kill their husbands reveal that there is a history of marital violence in more than 70% of the cases and over half of the husband killings occur in response to an immediate threat or attack by the husband;
- some studies suggest that women’s violence is more likely to be self defence where the male partner is violent;
- men’s violence towards women is most often an attempt to control, coerce, humiliate, or dominate by generating fear and intimidation. However, women’s violence is more often an expression of frustration in response to their dependence or stress, or their refusal to accept a less powerful position; and
- most women whose partners are violent live in fear before, during, and after separation from them. However male victims are far less likely to be afraid or intimidated, and are more likely to be angry.
-Bagshaw, D, Chung, D Couch, M, Lilburn, s & Wadham, B, Reshaping responses to domestic violence, Office for the Status of Women, Department of Prime Minister and Cabinet, Canberra 1999.
okay? i love how men experience a small portion of violence at the hands of women, like a fucking cut on his arm and he thinks he’s a full blown domestic abuse survivor worthy of shitting on all the experiences of the women who die or are hospitalised at the hands of male violence every fucking week.
like okay, it’s shitty that your girlfriend cut you or scratched you or whatever she did, i’m not sure it’s not clear but come back to me when you’ve had to spend years as a child watching your step dad pin your mum down on your bed while you were quietly playing just so he can spit on her face because she was trying to stand up for herself against him.
nobody says women can’t abuse men, the argument is that the abuse on female victims is far more severe and should be the main focus point, when you make posts like this you are actually erasing the entire struggle that we go through every day because you need to make your little issue front and centre and of course everyone cares about the white male’s issues more than anyone else!!!!
Not to mention male violence has historical and political context surrounding it. Men for thousands of years, globally have been using violence to subjugate, silence, and seek dominance over women. Female-to-male domestic violence is deviant, but male-to-female domestic violence is the norm and is systematically protected.
You would think that this would cause a person to reject the bogus teachings of the manly man’s “girls can’t” narrative so dear to the hearts of misogynists everywhere. But that would shake his world, so he will double down on the misogyny instead.
Wow, guy with a scratch on his hand, feminism doesn’t need you either, ’cause feminism is for women. Even if we were to give you the benefit of the doubt and believe that your injuries were severe and your life was in danger, people not taking you seriously is neither women’s fault nor women’s problem.
looks like a bite mark. women tend to bite hands that grab or choke them
[VICTIM BLAMING INTENSIFIES]
I just want to take the time to appreciate self proclaimed feminists providing me with yet another example of their fucked up selfish view of the world. I also want to appreciate the poster above that victim blaming cumstain above you, for breaking the rosy dream that feminism is for the equality of the genders and that it’s for everyone, like so many of them like to say.
Thank you. Thank you so much for providing me with more examples of why I will never call myself a feminist ever again.
So one man says he was abused and suddenly he’s trying to make every single domestic violence issue about him alone. The fact that he exists erases every single female victim and men deserve no help or recognition whatsoever. There are a tiny handful of shelters that even accept men and they honestly think that women are erased and ignored in favour of men? We see women on here every day claiming they’re oppressed because their “eye rape” wasn’t recognised or taken seriously by police and that just because it’s not as bad as actual rape doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be dealt with but a man who was abused and has the scars to prove it is scum because X thing happens.
It’s awesome how the OP was about male abuse not being recognized or taken seriously, and the comments are filled with people who… don’t take it seriously!
This isn’t a “men have it worse” scenario - this is a “this issue isn’t gendered, so quit treating it as such” scenario.
For all the times I’ve seen feminist gaslight with the ever popular “WAT ABOUT TEH MENZ D;” retort, feminists do a damn good job of silencing victims when they don’t line up with their “men abuse, women are abused” mentality. Stop with the Oppression Olympics. You can’t say that abuse is worse for a group simply because of their gender. There’s a multitude of factors involved that you’re overlooking.
As for the cut…
I have a scar on my knee. It honestly doesn’t look that bad and it’s not that noticeable.
I cut open my knee twice when I was little. The injury made walking difficult for months afterwards.
My grandmother has a little mark on her arm. Considering her age, it could easily be mistaken for those miscolorations that come with age.
She was shot.
My brother has a thin scar on his lower stomach. Nothing too drastic.
He had surgery done when he was only a few months old to fix a rupture in his intestines. He would have died if it weren’t for that surgery.
My dad has a tiny sliver of a bald patch on his head. You honestly can’t see it unless you’re really close.
He was attacked by his brother when he was little. The spot was the result of a machete cutting his head open.
A scar can only tell you so much. Quit being ignorant fucks.
For that last comment, and that comment alone. Ya’ll need a reality check.
This is why feminists actually scare me. They have the biggest circlejerk hivemind attitude that I’ve ever seen, and a lot of them can twist any situation into a sexist instance and it’s just mortifying. Imagine what they could do if they started lying about abuse to use it to their advantage.
I don’t need feminism because:
I need equality for all genders, races, creeds and religions.
I am ONLY reblogging for the last three comments. Have you ever stopped to think that, that is in fact, not his wrist and he didn’t upturn his wrist because people who self harm (and are NOT in it for attention) are rather ashamed of it? Yeah, there are differences between male to female, and female to male domestic abuse, but men get abused to. Women are not the only ones.
"I don’t need feminism because:
I need equality for all genders, races, creeds and religions.
Warms my heart to see actual, equal attitudes and real live sanity on Tumblr. (The last several notes, not the usual “proving OP’s exact point by dismissing him and making everything about you” vomit)
Elves and Gremlins
Okay, I figure I can post this now.
Lady Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.
Jessica Drew (something to note, in this version I chose to get away from her spider-codename and make her be more fully integrated as a shield agent so thusly I refer to her as the Red Widow)
Victoria Hand (I really hope she comes back soon)
and the mother of shield, the Contessa Valentina Allegra de Fontaine
There were a few others I was considering of adding, but had to exclude due to space.
All costumes redesigned to some extent. It was definitely a key goal to make all their body and facial structures, hair styles, how they hold their body, carry themselves, etc all match the characters and be different. i really tried to take into consideration their personality and what their main use in operations.
I’d Love to work on a S.H.I.E.L.D. book with this as the cast. with occasional steve, bucky, dum dum guest starring
hello a SHIELD story I’d actually be interested in!!